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Clarity: rules, limits and triggers
RULES:
❥ Must be 21+ for this ride.
❥ The story progression is of the utmost importance.
❥ Don't be an asshat.
❥ 3rd person POV there will be no exceptions.
❥ You send the request—have something in mind for a story.
❥ I will not play characters who identify as female—/effeminate/ is fine, just not /as female/.
❥ Any degree of the male gender spectrum—from big burly hairy bear, to dainty trap—is all good.
❥ Intersex, non-binary and /in TRANSition/ are included in this /male/ spectrum of characters that I am willing to play and play with.
❥ As long as your post is helping to progress the story I don't give a sh*t how long it is.
❥ One-liners are fine, as long as it adds to the scene—dialogue is bound to happen, I prefer not to be distracted with a bunch of unnecessary fluffing.
❥ I have learned to be very concise but detailed with my posts, find people get less confused or burnt out.
LIMITS:
❥ No Minors—not as characters not as partners.
❥ Not big on "vanilla" /anything/—obviously there is a time and a place.
❥ No FxF—needs to be penis involved.
❥ Not really interested in redheads—unlikely to ever be a first choice.
❥ Inaccurate portrayal/representation—of /anything/.
TRIGGERS:
❥ Rabbits/bunnies—they belong in a stewpot and nowhere else.
❥ The word "sage", as a name especially.
❥ The smell of popcorn—even just reading a scene where popcorn is being made...no.
❥ Aggressive tickling.
❥ Bare human feet being interacted with in an intimate way.
❥
{aaand I need to just walk away now}
❥ Posts about SH/"Unaliving" /yourself/—Such things outside of story will result in your prompt [and permanent] removal from my contacts. ╰┈➤www.roleplay.me/get-help.php
❥ Must be 21+ for this ride.
❥ The story progression is of the utmost importance.
❥ Don't be an asshat.
❥ 3rd person POV there will be no exceptions.
❥ You send the request—have something in mind for a story.
❥ I will not play characters who identify as female—/effeminate/ is fine, just not /as female/.
❥ Any degree of the male gender spectrum—from big burly hairy bear, to dainty trap—is all good.
❥ Intersex, non-binary and /in TRANSition/ are included in this /male/ spectrum of characters that I am willing to play and play with.
❥ As long as your post is helping to progress the story I don't give a sh*t how long it is.
❥ One-liners are fine, as long as it adds to the scene—dialogue is bound to happen, I prefer not to be distracted with a bunch of unnecessary fluffing.
❥ I have learned to be very concise but detailed with my posts, find people get less confused or burnt out.
LIMITS:
❥ No Minors—not as characters not as partners.
❥ Not big on "vanilla" /anything/—obviously there is a time and a place.
❥ No FxF—needs to be penis involved.
❥ Not really interested in redheads—unlikely to ever be a first choice.
❥ Inaccurate portrayal/representation—of /anything/.
TRIGGERS:
❥ Rabbits/bunnies—they belong in a stewpot and nowhere else.
❥ The word "sage", as a name especially.
❥ The smell of popcorn—even just reading a scene where popcorn is being made...no.
❥ Aggressive tickling.
❥ Bare human feet being interacted with in an intimate way.
❥
{aaand I need to just walk away now}
❥ Posts about SH/"Unaliving" /yourself/—Such things outside of story will result in your prompt [and permanent] removal from my contacts. ╰┈➤www.roleplay.me/get-help.php
Trans•parency: info on me and my story preferences
Pronouns: Male [for simplicity], otherwise plurals and neutral are preferred; we are a collective after all. "This one" is common for singular self reference; though years of people informing us it was weird/wrong—we are in the habit of conforming to "normal self referral" and male pronouns. [He/Him and I/Me/Myself]
I enjoy playing characters that help me cope and work out some catharsis and find some mental peace with my flesh vessel.
While I do not consider myself trans; this meat suit technically means I am—it's easier to think of myself as being intersex or agender. In my /34-year old gay man brain/, claiming to be "trans" is admitting I am not a man.
It is f***ed up that I am getting hate thrown my way for just trying to figure out how be comfortable with this body I am trapped in and who I am as a person—
I do not care about personal details. I do not care who or what /you/ the writer are. Our physical selves hold no relevance on our online "personas". I get that with social media being so prevalent and tied into f***ing everything nowadays, that these younger people are used to "being real" all the time. That shoving their list of "look at me I'm a special snowflake" details is now the norm.
That isn't what the internet used to be. It was a place to finally get to be yourself. To shrug off the meat suit and /just be/. That is the internet I grew up with. You could be male or female or "without gender", could just be an animal. You didn't have these long pages of "about the admin". No one cared. Just a quick, "ASL"—often just "AL", and "location" was usually just "hey, what's our time difference", not an actual location—unless you were a moron.
The writer as a person does not matter. Not /me/ not /you/.
Writing [skill level] compatibility matters. Scheduling matters. Topic preferences and expectations matter.
What does NOT matter is the writer's gender, orientation, religion, politics, race—NONE of /that/ matters when writing a story together.
If you cannot separate YOURSELF from your characters and the stories you're writing—guess what—I do not want to write with you!
Such a self-involved habit is immensely limiting, it shows a lack of imagination and mental maturity. All the worse if you do such things in highly fantastical settings.
My preference is to play a wide scope of characters that do things I can't—so I can live vicariously through the fantasy of NOT MYSELF. Often resulting in a better appreciation for /myself/. This is why I like heavy dark themes where the situations are worse than they are IRL for me. [Happy fluffy B.S. is nauseating drivel that makes me immensely uncomfortable and tends to spur depressive episodes.]
Is it wrong to want respectful and properly labeled portrayals of gender variants—do you think such an expectation is being Anti-LGBTIQAᐩ?
I enjoy exploring biologically and surgically diverse genders. For 20 years—2 decades—I have done, and still do, research into the conditions and genders and identities found among my characters.
When running my non-normative characters I do my best to ensure they are not defined by these traits—that they are just part of who they are as an individual. That they function in their day to day accordingly in the stories I write.
Doing this helps me to be able see from someone else's point of view. To have a better understanding of people living differently from myself. As someone who struggles with "emotional connections", being able to address these differences in a logical, methodical, thought out manner helps anchor understanding in my brain—to instill Cognitive Empathy.
Intersex:
Ovotestis presents in any number of ways, and they aren't always obvious—
Ovotesticular DSD, which is formerly known as “true hermaphroditism,” is the rarest disorder of sex development in humans.
Intersex people were categorized as either having "true hermaphroditism", "female pseudohermaphroditism", or "male pseudohermaphroditism".
These terms are no longer used, and terms including the word "hermaphrodite" are considered to be misleading, stigmatizing, and scientifically specious in reference to humans.
"Futanari" is just the Japanese word used for "hermaphroditism"—neither word [or characters] is technically allowed on this site. They are outdated terms for "intersex".
The gender identity of an intersex individual is no different from anyone else. Typically identifying as male or female, while others are under the non-binary umbrella; some even are transgender and seek affirming care.
Sick of seeing people deny the existence of this very real, though rare, medical condition. Intersex is not just another term for non-binary or for transgender. Though some people in /TRANSistion/ do find it easier [mentally] to identify as being "intersex".
I enjoy playing characters that help me cope and work out some catharsis and find some mental peace with my flesh vessel.
While I do not consider myself trans; this meat suit technically means I am—it's easier to think of myself as being intersex or agender. In my /34-year old gay man brain/, claiming to be "trans" is admitting I am not a man.
It is f***ed up that I am getting hate thrown my way for just trying to figure out how be comfortable with this body I am trapped in and who I am as a person—
I do not care about personal details. I do not care who or what /you/ the writer are. Our physical selves hold no relevance on our online "personas". I get that with social media being so prevalent and tied into f***ing everything nowadays, that these younger people are used to "being real" all the time. That shoving their list of "look at me I'm a special snowflake" details is now the norm.
That isn't what the internet used to be. It was a place to finally get to be yourself. To shrug off the meat suit and /just be/. That is the internet I grew up with. You could be male or female or "without gender", could just be an animal. You didn't have these long pages of "about the admin". No one cared. Just a quick, "ASL"—often just "AL", and "location" was usually just "hey, what's our time difference", not an actual location—unless you were a moron.
The writer as a person does not matter. Not /me/ not /you/.
Writing [skill level] compatibility matters. Scheduling matters. Topic preferences and expectations matter.
What does NOT matter is the writer's gender, orientation, religion, politics, race—NONE of /that/ matters when writing a story together.
If you cannot separate YOURSELF from your characters and the stories you're writing—guess what—I do not want to write with you!
Such a self-involved habit is immensely limiting, it shows a lack of imagination and mental maturity. All the worse if you do such things in highly fantastical settings.
My preference is to play a wide scope of characters that do things I can't—so I can live vicariously through the fantasy of NOT MYSELF. Often resulting in a better appreciation for /myself/. This is why I like heavy dark themes where the situations are worse than they are IRL for me. [Happy fluffy B.S. is nauseating drivel that makes me immensely uncomfortable and tends to spur depressive episodes.]
Is it wrong to want respectful and properly labeled portrayals of gender variants—do you think such an expectation is being Anti-LGBTIQAᐩ?
I enjoy exploring biologically and surgically diverse genders. For 20 years—2 decades—I have done, and still do, research into the conditions and genders and identities found among my characters.
When running my non-normative characters I do my best to ensure they are not defined by these traits—that they are just part of who they are as an individual. That they function in their day to day accordingly in the stories I write.
Doing this helps me to be able see from someone else's point of view. To have a better understanding of people living differently from myself. As someone who struggles with "emotional connections", being able to address these differences in a logical, methodical, thought out manner helps anchor understanding in my brain—to instill Cognitive Empathy.
Intersex:
Ovotestis presents in any number of ways, and they aren't always obvious—
Ovotesticular DSD, which is formerly known as “true hermaphroditism,” is the rarest disorder of sex development in humans.
Intersex people were categorized as either having "true hermaphroditism", "female pseudohermaphroditism", or "male pseudohermaphroditism".
These terms are no longer used, and terms including the word "hermaphrodite" are considered to be misleading, stigmatizing, and scientifically specious in reference to humans.
"Futanari" is just the Japanese word used for "hermaphroditism"—neither word [or characters] is technically allowed on this site. They are outdated terms for "intersex".
The gender identity of an intersex individual is no different from anyone else. Typically identifying as male or female, while others are under the non-binary umbrella; some even are transgender and seek affirming care.
Sick of seeing people deny the existence of this very real, though rare, medical condition. Intersex is not just another term for non-binary or for transgender. Though some people in /TRANSistion/ do find it easier [mentally] to identify as being "intersex".
General Info on me
❥ I am just one of many—though one of the more centered Alts, I am just that. Most have an awareness and are open, but we are just cogs in a DID system. No you will not witness multiple Alts on this account—we have our own interests and accounts, there's no need to double up.
❥ This flesh vessel we inhabit is all wrong [too big, too small, too fem, too old, too young, too human, wrong eyes, hair, skin, etc.], but we have made great strides in coming to terms with things to such an extent we do not constantly feel like peeling off the disgusting meat prison. Welcome to Body Dysphoria—not dysmorphia. As much as the gender of this vessel plays a part in this [gender dysphoria]—the fact is it is not the correct form for each Alt; and to assuage this we have accumulated many wigs, coloured contacts, 4 distinct wardrobes and even have a variety of ears, tails, and horns.
❥ I am on the Autism Spectrum—writing is my focus, /words/ and their origins, "the rules of writing". Another interest is history—world history, I tend to get interested in something and then go down a rabbit hole of research finding out all I can about the where, when and why—the clothes, food and cultural traditions and significance, not to mention the uncanny similarities between seemingly unrelated peoples is fascinating to me. I also have a need to experiment—actively seeking to try things for myself so I can better my writing with personal experience, this can be anything, but mostly food, clothes, and kinks.
❥ Ennui is a constant companion, bringing along exciting friends like Existential Nihilism, Depression, and Self-Loathing. In such times focusing on writing is preferred.
❥ I get sick very easily—often going grocery shopping will result in me being ill and getting laid up for a week or more with a cold. Things were so nice during the height of COVID—social distancing, cleanliness, everyone having to wear masks. I could actually go out and not end up sick every time. I had been wearing facemasks long before the pandemic due to my sh*tty immune system.
❥ I am a homemaker. You will find that I am almost always online, this does not mean I am always available—
❥ I have agoraphobia—RP is my equivalent to "going out with friends".
❥ I am in a committed relationship, and have been since October 2010. Weekends are reserved for IRL time, and I am expected to make dinner most nights.
❥ I have RA and TMJ, which I have been dealing with most of my life—causes frequent migraines and I am at the mercy of the weather. I combat my pain and discomfort with THC, alcohol and painkillers, somedays it just isn't enough. Flare ups unfortunately can last an unbearable amount of time, still I will try to at the very least make status updates.
❥ I am partially deaf—so I don't always think to describe sounds.
❥ I deal with infuriating dietary issues and often reflect them in full or part in my characters as a sort of catharsis to help come to terms with it. Normalize it.
❥ I lived 4 years as a lifestyle pet with an Owner. Completely non-sexual. Wore a tail and collar, was taken for /walkies/, given treats and pets. And /no/ I am not a furry, explored /that/ it was not for me. My life partner however is a furry, a souvenir I picked up during my journey of 20-something self-exploration.
❥ I have regressive episodes brought on by stress and will often take a day or two away...
❥ This flesh vessel we inhabit is all wrong [too big, too small, too fem, too old, too young, too human, wrong eyes, hair, skin, etc.], but we have made great strides in coming to terms with things to such an extent we do not constantly feel like peeling off the disgusting meat prison. Welcome to Body Dysphoria—not dysmorphia. As much as the gender of this vessel plays a part in this [gender dysphoria]—the fact is it is not the correct form for each Alt; and to assuage this we have accumulated many wigs, coloured contacts, 4 distinct wardrobes and even have a variety of ears, tails, and horns.
❥ I am on the Autism Spectrum—writing is my focus, /words/ and their origins, "the rules of writing". Another interest is history—world history, I tend to get interested in something and then go down a rabbit hole of research finding out all I can about the where, when and why—the clothes, food and cultural traditions and significance, not to mention the uncanny similarities between seemingly unrelated peoples is fascinating to me. I also have a need to experiment—actively seeking to try things for myself so I can better my writing with personal experience, this can be anything, but mostly food, clothes, and kinks.
❥ Ennui is a constant companion, bringing along exciting friends like Existential Nihilism, Depression, and Self-Loathing. In such times focusing on writing is preferred.
❥ I get sick very easily—often going grocery shopping will result in me being ill and getting laid up for a week or more with a cold. Things were so nice during the height of COVID—social distancing, cleanliness, everyone having to wear masks. I could actually go out and not end up sick every time. I had been wearing facemasks long before the pandemic due to my sh*tty immune system.
❥ I am a homemaker. You will find that I am almost always online, this does not mean I am always available—
❥ I have agoraphobia—RP is my equivalent to "going out with friends".
❥ I am in a committed relationship, and have been since October 2010. Weekends are reserved for IRL time, and I am expected to make dinner most nights.
❥ I have RA and TMJ, which I have been dealing with most of my life—causes frequent migraines and I am at the mercy of the weather. I combat my pain and discomfort with THC, alcohol and painkillers, somedays it just isn't enough. Flare ups unfortunately can last an unbearable amount of time, still I will try to at the very least make status updates.
❥ I am partially deaf—so I don't always think to describe sounds.
❥ I deal with infuriating dietary issues and often reflect them in full or part in my characters as a sort of catharsis to help come to terms with it. Normalize it.
❥ I lived 4 years as a lifestyle pet with an Owner. Completely non-sexual. Wore a tail and collar, was taken for /walkies/, given treats and pets. And /no/ I am not a furry, explored /that/ it was not for me. My life partner however is a furry, a souvenir I picked up during my journey of 20-something self-exploration.
❥ I have regressive episodes brought on by stress and will often take a day or two away...
Adult and Dark Themes are more than Sex
Keep it in your pants. While I do not mind getting into such scenarios, it is not what I am looking for.
"Adult Themes" is content that contains, depicts or explicitly references one or more of the following:
strong or offensive language
discriminatory themes/language
nudity
sex
violence
excessive blood and gore
substance use or abuse
suicide or other traumatic themes
ideologically sensitive themes
…etc.
These can also be considered "triggering" - but then, so can something as simple as tickling...
I.E.
If someone in their youth was mercilessly tickled by their numerous older siblings, often until they had an accident and were left sore and unable to breathe. Which only elicited laughter and teasing from their older siblings.
Tickling would be quite a triggering subject.
I would hope that people are conscientious enough to warn and avoid anything that might cause them distress, and that their partner respects their boundaries.
Due to an acute self-awareness and a lot of self-work that I have done over the years there is very little that genuinely triggers me or I would consider "off limits". I am not my characters. The stories I am writing are just flights of fancy with no real bearing on me or my life. They are a pleasant way to explore and try out new scenarios with the safety of not physically doing anything potentially dangerous or life threatening.
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"Adult Themes" is content that contains, depicts or explicitly references one or more of the following:
strong or offensive language
discriminatory themes/language
nudity
sex
violence
excessive blood and gore
substance use or abuse
suicide or other traumatic themes
ideologically sensitive themes
…etc.
These can also be considered "triggering" - but then, so can something as simple as tickling...
I.E.
If someone in their youth was mercilessly tickled by their numerous older siblings, often until they had an accident and were left sore and unable to breathe. Which only elicited laughter and teasing from their older siblings.
Tickling would be quite a triggering subject.
I would hope that people are conscientious enough to warn and avoid anything that might cause them distress, and that their partner respects their boundaries.
Due to an acute self-awareness and a lot of self-work that I have done over the years there is very little that genuinely triggers me or I would consider "off limits". I am not my characters. The stories I am writing are just flights of fancy with no real bearing on me or my life. They are a pleasant way to explore and try out new scenarios with the safety of not physically doing anything potentially dangerous or life threatening.
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What about a story piques my interests?
Believable characters with solid backstories and a progression of character growth with depth and nuance. Tackling taboos and morally grey areas and provoking genuine thought about the state of the world through a medium without any real ramifications that allow us to take a step back and consider the big picture of the scenarios being put forth over the course of the plot - how one thing can lead to another and the effect it may have. Playing out scenarios that get me out of my comfort zone and considering how different life experiences can shape someone into who they are and provide a little insight into why other people are the way they are.
What interests YOU in roleplay?
—oh I also enjoy all manner of dark subjects and lots of "spice"~
❥ WAM—Wet And Messy—get creative.
❥ Excessive precum and/or semen.
❥ Stomach bulge/Inflation.
❥ Breath Control.
❥ Oral/Deep Throat/Gagging/Face-F***ing.
❥ Fear/Primal prey.
❥ Non-Con/Pseudo-Rape.
❥ Size difference (1-3ft)
❥ Legal Age Gap (8yr min.)
❥ Tentacles.
❥ Big sub w/ small Dom.
❥ Older sub w/ Younger Dom—smaller or similar size sub in this scenario.
❥ Medical/Experimentation/Mutilation/Castration/Mpreg
❥ Male Pregnancy/Lactation/Artificial Insemination/Forced Pregnancy/Breeding
❥ Birth/Unbirth
❥ Body Worship—no bare human feet. Anthro feet/paws are fine. Rest of the body is fair game.
❥ Bullying/Coercion/Blackmail/Stalking.
❥ Stretching/Fisting/Speculums/Gaping Orifices/Human Toilet/Creampie.
❥ Urine, Menses, Drool, Cum, Sweat, Blood, Tears—Feces and Vomit will not be consumed, but are fine to be involved. These are all natural bodily functions, many of which come up during sexual activities.
…need I go on?
What interests YOU in roleplay?
—oh I also enjoy all manner of dark subjects and lots of "spice"~
❥ WAM—Wet And Messy—get creative.
❥ Excessive precum and/or semen.
❥ Stomach bulge/Inflation.
❥ Breath Control.
❥ Oral/Deep Throat/Gagging/Face-F***ing.
❥ Fear/Primal prey.
❥ Non-Con/Pseudo-Rape.
❥ Size difference (1-3ft)
❥ Legal Age Gap (8yr min.)
❥ Tentacles.
❥ Big sub w/ small Dom.
❥ Older sub w/ Younger Dom—smaller or similar size sub in this scenario.
❥ Medical/Experimentation/Mutilation/Castration/Mpreg
❥ Male Pregnancy/Lactation/Artificial Insemination/Forced Pregnancy/Breeding
❥ Birth/Unbirth
❥ Body Worship—no bare human feet. Anthro feet/paws are fine. Rest of the body is fair game.
❥ Bullying/Coercion/Blackmail/Stalking.
❥ Stretching/Fisting/Speculums/Gaping Orifices/Human Toilet/Creampie.
❥ Urine, Menses, Drool, Cum, Sweat, Blood, Tears—Feces and Vomit will not be consumed, but are fine to be involved. These are all natural bodily functions, many of which come up during sexual activities.
…need I go on?