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Rules, Guidelines, and Overexplaining


Thank you for taking a look at my rules! I apologize if these are long, but I have quite a few things I like to keep people informed of. Please try to read my rules before friending me, as a lot of these have to do with my roleplay style.

1) I do not do one-liners. While I'm not strict about the multi-paragraph length or novella writing (especially because it can be hard to write pages and pages between two lines of dialogue) one-liners make me frustrated. Please only add me if you're willing to put in the work to write longer responses.

2) I have trouble reading clumped-up words (ironic, I know), so a lot of times I will break up larger paragraphs into smaller pieces to be able to read them better. I ask that you do the same, especially if you're sending novella-length replies. If you send 10-line messages with no indents, it will be very hard for me to respond to you in a way that makes sense with what you sent to me.

3) N*FW Is on the table. I actually enjoy having it in my roleplays quite a bit, and I think it elevates the story itself. That being said, I will not do a roleplay just for the N*FW aspect of it (think stories that are just there for the characters to do something, and then it stops). I am alright with stories that center around N*FW themes (something like prostitute x sugar daddy)

4) Please ask for interests and icks when talking about doing a N*FW scene. It's very rare that I would allow for a N*FW scene to go on without a discussion of interests and icks.

5) I don't enjoy slice-of-life roleplays. To me, this includes any roleplay that has to do with "people just living their lives". I need a story to be present to be able to connect with the material.

6) The only time I will ever move to discord from this website is if I am truly invested in the story and my partner asks, or if I am deactivating this account. Please do not ask me for my discord or ask to move to discord without talking about a plot with me.

7) I'm willing to play quite a few different types of characters, though 95% of the time I prefer playing trans males. I prefer the MxM dynamic, I'm more than willing to play a nonbinary person, and I can enjoy FxF if the plot is good, though I have a lot of trouble with FxM plots.

8) I don't enjoy being dominant, so the likelihood is that I will be playing a submissive character, both outside and inside of bedroom scenes. Please keep this in mind when adding me, I don't enjoy it when people add me with the expectation that I will be dominant.

9) I'm trying to get better about being open and honest with people, so if I shut down one of your ideas, or if I tell you I'm tired of the roleplay we're doing, I apologize. I want to get better at advocating for myself, so I'm attempting to use this site to help

10) If we start a roleplay I deeply enjoy you will see me stalking your profile often. It helps me know when to anticipate a response so I don't worry about the partners I roleplay with

11) My favorite genres are fantasy and supernatural. I almost always need romance in my roleplays, and I almost always have a plot idea, though I'll generally ask you about yours first

12) Approach me out of character, please. Discuss a plot thoroughly and agree mutually on who starts the roleplay so that we can both be prepared.

13) If you add me, you message me first. If you add me and haven't messaged me within three days I will be unadding you.

14) If I ghost you I apologize, I get very busy and sometimes I don't have time to respond to everyone I talk with, especially if I'm not particularly invested in the plot


I may update these or edit them later on, but I wanted to have someplace besides my bio to overexplain my rules and reasons. Thank you, if you made it this far, and if you agree with me, feel free to send me a request!!
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