My Rules

hello! thanks for stopping by to read these rules. more rules may be added in the future. let me know in a private message when you have read all my rules. thank you in advance!

• [ no minors ]
— i don’t accept people under 18.
— 18+ only.

• [ about writing ]
— i only write in 3rd person. please write in 3rd person as well, 1st person makes me uncomfortable. present or past tense, i don’t have a preference for that.
— no one liners. i usually write in Multi-Para/Novella. i absolutely love long-term and detailed replies.
— i can write up to 3-6 lengthy and detailed paragraphs. normally i try to match my partners writing length. i’m a flexible writer. you don’t have to match my length, but do write something I can work with.
— no god modding / controlling my character.
— i mainly do fxm, but i’m also open for fxf. i’m not comfortable with writing as male characters.
— if we’re writing and we want to talk ooc, i always use () or [] or // please do the same, otherwise it’s going to be confusing

• [ messaging ]
— i’m still in college, and I work in the health care as a part time job. i have a lot more time to write on the weekends because i am free most of the time. i always try to reply at least 2-4 times a day.
— don’t spam me. responses can take anywhere from a day to about four, depending on length. if I haven’t responded for more than four days, please send me a reminder.
— i would let you know if I’m busy. i would appreciate it if you do the same.
— i don’t have a problem with time differences between time zones. i live in the Netherlands [CET time zone].
— if you add me, try messaging me first. you add, you talk and vice versa. and when you do message, please start ooc, so we can actually discuss something. not just in character with a starter and i have no clue what we’re doing.

• [ genres & kinks & limits ]
— i absolutely love (dark) romance, drama, sci-fi, slice of life, action, psychological, angst and suspense. most of the time, i’m also in the mood for fantasy and medieval.
— i’m okay with smut as long as you’re comfortable with it. if not, we can just skip those scenes, please let me know.
— heated and love making scenes are welcome in the story, as it makes the story more “realistic” in my eyes. but, i don’t want it to take over the entire story. i’m a sucker for story telling. i prefer some build up and chemistry between our characters first. i’m fine with a healthy amount of love making scenes in the story. for example; 80% story and 20% love making or 50-50%. this is something we can discuss in private of course.
— i’m also open for fandoms. feel free to ask for my fandoms in private.
— feel free to ask for my kinks and limits, if we want some n(s)fw and mature themes included.