역할극 규칙 — my roleplaying rules, style, preferences

♡ boundaries & respect: this is pretty simple—you respect my boundaries, I respect yours. understand that no is no, and DO NOT force or gaslight me to play a certain role I’m not comfortable with, and I wouldn’t force you to do the same. this includes to NOT harass me if i disagree or express discomfort with your ideas.

♡ length: I’d prefer my partner to write at least one paragraph (or 3 sentences is okay at least). as for myself, I can range from 1-3 paragraphs to a whole novella length, but it depends on my interests towards the roleplay—usually, the more I become invested in a certain role play, the more sentence/paragraph you’ll get from me :)

♡ genre: if we roleplay, the story should NOT be 100% romance, like there has to be another aspects and buildups before it, so don’t ask for a romance plot right away. obviously—considering my character’s complex backstory, a scenario where my character had love at first sight with your character wouldn’t be realistic, and roleplays where our characters just fall in love out of the blue bores me very quickly. *rolls eyes*

♡ ic/ooc: one of my biggest icks in this site is how some people just approach me in character right after I accepted their request, like??? please refrain from doing this—this will give me negative impression and instantly turn off my mood from roleplaying. i also wouldn’t recommend starting roleplay off the bat without prior discussion.

♡ n**w roleplays: BANNED. now i know this might be upsetting for some people but most who added me kept asking for the same damn thing—they don’t even give a damn about my story ideas, they just care about the ‘spicy’ stuff and nothing more. i need to do this to avoid these specific type of people because i am getting REALLY SICK and TIRED of it.

♡ triggering topics: now this is going to be a long rant (for obvious reasons), as i have seen users with dark, triggering themes—but the problem is there are ones that are straight up ILLEGAL offenses and worst of all, they’re SHAMELESSLY romanticizing it. I can name it a few: family member x family member, legal adult x minor (ICK), r-word or s.a. (ICK), and the list goes on. obviously I DO NOT ALLOW these plots—although I never experienced these, there are actual people in real life who suffered trauma due to such heinous acts, and it’s just so f**ked up to romanticize it. i will only give a warning once, but if you kept on insisting i’ll have no other choice but to utilize the block button on you.
(on a more serious note: if anyone who romanticized these topics are reading this post, I only have one thing to say: go. seek. therapy.)

♡ communication : if something bothers you—whether you feel bored out of our roleplay or if I happen to make a wrong choice of words—don’t be afraid to let me know. it is much better to communicate, negotiate and get a win-win solution rather than just straight up ignoring and leaving your partner hanging with no explanation why.

♡ personal triggers: if we roleplay, i would like to ask you to address your triggers when we discuss the plot. as for myself, my personal request would be to refrain from incorporating or bringing up these following topics into the plot:

- adult x minor relationships
- illegal relationships in general
- racism and homophobia
- any form of humiliation.
- r-word / sa

♡ dni list: please do not interact with me if you're the following:

- hate profiles / troll accounts
- n**w-only accounts
- has a blank bio
- homophobic
- sexist


will add more soon enough :) if you have read, feel free to comment "♡" at the comments below ♡