My thought process of waiting on a reply/when to u


Number one: If you're busy, you're busy. Doesn't matter if you take a month to reply, I just assume life got hectic or something

I don't need reasons, excuses, 'sorry', or anything; you can just pick up where we left off like nothing happened. Life should always come first, and I expect that same idea for myself. This doesn't mean you can't be 'clingy', but just don't get upset if I randomly poof for a week. There is a reason I posted my discord in my other blog; it's easier to get a hold of me from there. Even if you just want to casually talk there and keep here for the roleplay

There is one thing I tend to do if I notice someone is around bu hasn't replied in like a week or two. I simply say '(I hope everything is doing okay)' or something along those lines. Please do not take this as something sarcastic or anything, it really is a genuine remark. Main reason I do this is to bring the chat back up front in case it got berried/thought you replied/glitched out, but it also lets me say that I hope things are going okay; AGAIN I CANNOT STRESS THIS, YOU DO NOT HAVE TO GIVE REASONS OR WHAT NOT*. All I would need is minor like 'Still busy' or something. I'm a person on the internet, you aren't required to tell me* what is happening in your life

*You can tell me/talk to me. Get it off your chest or vent or what not. This is more saying 'You are not REQUIRED to tell me', but that doesn't mean you aren't allowed to talk to me


I say this all, but there is an exception. If 1) you are gone for 1+ weeks 2) Constantly online 3) I have sent 2+ messages with no response/no development 4) I get the sense you just don't want to roleplay/talk anymore. I will unadd you. Don't worry, you need to go through all these steps before I consider unadding you, so don't think that if you're gone for a week I'll imminently just jump to conclusions

If you do get unadded and actually do want to roleplay, you can re-add me and we can either start over or continue where we left. Given enough time too, I may completely forget you as well (I have horrible memory)
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